Our First Forum

I was asked by the Afghan leadership to lead a forum of women to obtain the women's concerns about their work environment. Interestingly, the men could not talk with the women because they knew it would serve no purpose as the women wouldn't speak up. What a wonderful opportunity to meet and ultimately converse with these women and many more than shown in the picture. Understandably, many did not want to be in a picture because of fear of reprisal from the Taliban.... they take no risk and I can't blame them. Unfortunately, I cannot share too much detail to ensure their safety.

I can say a few things though. Initially, they were very reserved and unwilling to speak with me. Not a comfortable situation for any of us. So, I started by telling them about my past in America just 25 years ago as one of the first woman in my police field. Like them, I faced many challenges that came with that position. I shared that I had to work harder and smarter, prove myself continually, and accept some ridicule. But, over time the men just got used to me and ultimately accepted me as a peer. I also shared the challenges I had with my husband who was was very happy when I had to get up and go to work in the wee hours in response to an incident. But like my peers, he got used to it. They were amazed America had some of the same challenges in its past that Afghanistan is experiencing today. The flood gates opened at that point and I was taken aback with the passion of these women. The next day I out briefed the male leadership and that proved a more fascinating conversation. But, must save that discussion for a different blog.

I hope all have a wonderful Labor Day Weekend!!!! I understand it's been quite hot back home in NH of late so the weekend should prove a nice reprieve. For Labor Day, I'll work a normal day. It's a war zone after all, no holidays here.

Love to All and Happy Labor Day... I'd love to get pictures of your various festivities. I still have some room on my walls available.